The only reason we feel bored about life is because we did not go to find out the excitement of life
Too often boredom is because we stay on something for too long until we forgot the purpose and meaning behind
Until we are losing balance in our life
Until we find ourselves sacrificing so much for a thing we cannot see the result after spending much time
Are you losing the focal point?
Calm down, control your breath
To appease your already messy mind is your prior task
Quiet down your voice, including those in virtual chatbox
And tune in some soothing piano, have some light drink
Who says life have to be so complicated, you've made it that way
Do you cherish your life at the moment?
When you are all focus on career and money, worried and hesitated, have you forgotten
about the beauty of life?
Career is supposed a way you can gain sense of accomplishment, for life
not a pressure vessel that pressurized you
Life is not easy to survive, but living out the best you can then you will feel happy
If making money makes you feel happy, then go ahead do it
If doing engineering stuff makes you feel happy and accomplished, then do it
It should not be another way round, that way you forced yourself to somewhere you think you'll feel happy
even though it might not be as good as others
your life is your life, should not be compared
Supposed you live in this world of competition, you cant escape from being evaluated by people
You cant escape the up and down of getting acknowledge or criticize
These are reality, which might be deadly if you choose to view it negatively
All competition cannot escape from comparison with others
But you have to remember the very first rule
be yourself and always work to be a better one you want to be
You are Free
You are Simple
You are Passionate
Then you are living the amazing way
Now breath in again, it's a new day
with love,
kayne
Saturday, May 14, 2011
Friday, May 13, 2011
the road not taken
So it's May now, the 10th month I have worked for my current employer
A lot of things has come to mind, a lot of opportunities come and go
And of course, eventually a lot of thoughts has grown, mature gradually
I remembered i was one a very impatient boy
i give up easily when i did not get to achieve whatever i want to achieve
I remembered myself as a uncommitted boy
wanting to get something but did not truly put in effort long enough
I remembered I was at the extreme of low-self esteem
living in so much fear, worry,doubt and yet try to cover up my interior complexity and behave in pseudo-superiority
I remembered I used to be too calculative and have a narrow heart
cannot accept the little givings to people other than friends and feeling hard after being thrown with nasty words from others
now only i realized, and start to get the right track in my life
being patient, as my targets might not achieved immediately
being committed, as targets without real effort and pain is just an empty talk
being positive and confident, as these moves us on and not wasting my time
being generous and open mind, as giving more is a real fortune and the real way of getting true happiness is taking mistakes and uncertainties as growing chance
all these repeated in my mind, and i still need to remind myself of these sometime
these are not crap, not ideal, not empty talk
for times i will still fall and doubt, but again i remind: go on, there's a better way
Now i am at the cross road again
the decision is tough as usual
my values are being tested, whether money is more important or the job scope or the future prospect
I need to think again and again, i still think money looks the most tangible return
but from a FB post of my fren i was reminded the importance of challenging ourselves from our comfort zone
Can i totally abandon my desire of money?
certainly no, but money can be earned if i'm valuable
and values only come from adversity, uncertainties
"Just do your best to be the best of you can, let excellence follows u"
With love,
Kayne
A lot of things has come to mind, a lot of opportunities come and go
And of course, eventually a lot of thoughts has grown, mature gradually
I remembered i was one a very impatient boy
i give up easily when i did not get to achieve whatever i want to achieve
I remembered myself as a uncommitted boy
wanting to get something but did not truly put in effort long enough
I remembered I was at the extreme of low-self esteem
living in so much fear, worry,doubt and yet try to cover up my interior complexity and behave in pseudo-superiority
I remembered I used to be too calculative and have a narrow heart
cannot accept the little givings to people other than friends and feeling hard after being thrown with nasty words from others
now only i realized, and start to get the right track in my life
being patient, as my targets might not achieved immediately
being committed, as targets without real effort and pain is just an empty talk
being positive and confident, as these moves us on and not wasting my time
being generous and open mind, as giving more is a real fortune and the real way of getting true happiness is taking mistakes and uncertainties as growing chance
all these repeated in my mind, and i still need to remind myself of these sometime
these are not crap, not ideal, not empty talk
for times i will still fall and doubt, but again i remind: go on, there's a better way
Now i am at the cross road again
the decision is tough as usual
my values are being tested, whether money is more important or the job scope or the future prospect
I need to think again and again, i still think money looks the most tangible return
but from a FB post of my fren i was reminded the importance of challenging ourselves from our comfort zone
Can i totally abandon my desire of money?
certainly no, but money can be earned if i'm valuable
and values only come from adversity, uncertainties
"Just do your best to be the best of you can, let excellence follows u"
With love,
Kayne
Saturday, April 9, 2011
小智慧
临睡前特别有感触
身子很累却有些小小的话想记录下来
这段日子真真切切领悟的一些道理
一些以前都没有过的领悟
一次次的成败里，还真的明白了一些
第一，诚实
对自己一定要诚实，对待别人则要诚心
对自己的感觉要诚实坦率！我是怎样的人，好的不好的都不该逃避自己
踏实的感觉最好
第二、很多事情需要时间
得不到不代表不能得到，只是机会还没到，或者自己还没准备好
等待自己想要的很不容易，加上一再受挫就更辛苦
错过机会就别再叹息难过，他不属于你的就不是你的
笑一个，再站起来，没什么的
第三、成功不是等待最完整的计划才开始
机会，时间没有很多次，白白等待是很愚蠢的
靠一个明确的方向就要开始
每天一点一点以行动不断应变、学习
什么信念、思想、价值和精神都需要体现、实践
成功不讲求速度快，累积起来的力量可以无限大
最后，如果我们愿意争取时间，时间才会是属于我们的
不争取、不懂争取都是到我们白白浪费生命
Thursday, March 31, 2011
Sharing of my experience: secret to be happy!
Just got a strong feeling tonight, which makes me so eager to write down what I'm feeling. I don't wanna lose this feeling and if I do, i can read this again and hopefully I will get to the point " Oh! I experience this before!", haha
I'm not a Guru of life, but these things come to my mind again and again, and it comes to 6 points of ways how human can be happy.
1. Never stops learning! Always keep an open mind. Learning is fun, and this is the only eternal way to keep you energized, young and living your life as wide as possible, as colorful as possible! I am one who loves to learn because I like to know more, I'm not smart but it excites me when I get to know new things though it might have nothing to do with my works or living, and explore on territory which is beyond my knowledge...and the definition of learning need to be carry to a wider context; traveling, reading, net surfing, attending course, socializing with people....You might feel like going on a trip to a total unfamiliar place, you might wanted to start to learn swimming, you might think of taking up your camera to see what you can do about it in capturing your life, you might want to challenge yourself with a hiking trip, you might feel like pick up a book on science and starts to immerse in the wonder of universe! There is just so much on the list to learn, and have fun of! It's a matter of attitude: an open mind keeps you learning just anything, anytime, anywhere! "Keep yourself curious as a kid and you are gonna be happy as them"
2. Smile, it's your day! Life is never smooth, and nobody can live a happy ever life as in the fairy tales. But you gotta believe in the power of SMILE! As we always talk of positive thinking, and a smile is the best way to kick start the mode and pull ourselves from dark part of ourselves. Do you have to force yourself to smile? and how about when we are feeling very bad? Think of the happy moment you had in your life: it can be wonderful trip you had, it can be your mum's cooking, it can be something excites you recently in your job, it can be a coming event which you have awaited so long, it can be a song which brings back a lot of past happy memories....How bad can your problems be if you have gone through so much. Let's smile everyday, everything's gonna be OK! Remember, we cannot escape from darkness but we can always bring in sunshine to light up the darkness!
3. Sleep well, eat well & move your body! I found that sleep deficiency greatly affects our focus of life, makes us perform badly in everything in our live, crippled our ability to handle crisis, and the fluctuation of emotion towards things and people is greater when we didn't manage to rest well. Usually when I find myself having a bad mood, is most probably I have been sleeping less that time! On the other side, to eat well makes us feel happy and stay healthy. It will be a great emotion booster when you can eat heartily, and with friends or family is even better! Of course, I'm not suggesting you to eat junk food which is so unhealthy and gonna drag you down further. All in all, eat heartily, have a good night sleep and you are all charge up to handle your problems!
4. Fear not, I'm the hero of my life! I think we all living in the age of fear. It's not only disasters getting more and more frequent, the whole generation is having less ability to handle uncertainties of life including losing job or someone we loved, unable to achieve what we want, unable to protect those we once own in our life. All kind of uncertainties surround us, as if we are living in the end of the world! Aren't we already living in a much civilized, developed world, why are we still feeling much threatened and insecure? Yes, we are living in this generation which is complicated by ourselves, we created this troubled world! Out of this mess, there seems to be only one way out : Fear not! Sometime I feel doubted about my choice, sometime I feel hesitate to talk, sometime i worried I cannot handle my problems; all these fear are of some reasons but it is all because we are afraid making mistakes, and we are afraid of taking up the consequences after taking some risks. "All is well! Our hearts get panic and fear easily" We know this feeling is actually playing with our heart, so we should not be taken away by this silly feeling! Go do it, get it started and it will have its way. If life is show, we will be the hero of our life who stand up from difficulties and make them as a thrilling chapter of our life story!
5. Appreciate relationship. Thanks to people who comes to our life: our parents, our sibling, our classmates, our friends, our colleagues, our superior. Perhaps as a human nothing is more important to have these people, so spend your time to building up a good relationship towards those around you. It would be so meaningful and bring joys when you can brings warmth and security to your family, when you encourage your friends and colleagues who feel demoralized, when you support your boss to grow a stronger business, when you give a helping hand to a someone who is in need. If you are willing to give, you are already get the richness of life.
6. Hopes, it's our choice to make them happen! We all have dreams, and they are needed to keep us moving gradually to a better place. Make them happen! One thing I agreed a lot on my current employer is the attitude we handle our life can make changes to our life. Be positive or negative, both can gives totally different outcome to our life. The key attitudes are: Take upsets/critics positively, keep an open mind to assess opportunities, and always be proactive and persistent in approaching people and problems. " A brick wall is to not to stop us. It is to test how badly we want get to the other side of it to get what we want."
I'm not a Guru of life, but these things come to my mind again and again, and it comes to 6 points of ways how human can be happy.
1. Never stops learning! Always keep an open mind. Learning is fun, and this is the only eternal way to keep you energized, young and living your life as wide as possible, as colorful as possible! I am one who loves to learn because I like to know more, I'm not smart but it excites me when I get to know new things though it might have nothing to do with my works or living, and explore on territory which is beyond my knowledge...and the definition of learning need to be carry to a wider context; traveling, reading, net surfing, attending course, socializing with people....You might feel like going on a trip to a total unfamiliar place, you might wanted to start to learn swimming, you might think of taking up your camera to see what you can do about it in capturing your life, you might want to challenge yourself with a hiking trip, you might feel like pick up a book on science and starts to immerse in the wonder of universe! There is just so much on the list to learn, and have fun of! It's a matter of attitude: an open mind keeps you learning just anything, anytime, anywhere! "Keep yourself curious as a kid and you are gonna be happy as them"
2. Smile, it's your day! Life is never smooth, and nobody can live a happy ever life as in the fairy tales. But you gotta believe in the power of SMILE! As we always talk of positive thinking, and a smile is the best way to kick start the mode and pull ourselves from dark part of ourselves. Do you have to force yourself to smile? and how about when we are feeling very bad? Think of the happy moment you had in your life: it can be wonderful trip you had, it can be your mum's cooking, it can be something excites you recently in your job, it can be a coming event which you have awaited so long, it can be a song which brings back a lot of past happy memories....How bad can your problems be if you have gone through so much. Let's smile everyday, everything's gonna be OK! Remember, we cannot escape from darkness but we can always bring in sunshine to light up the darkness!
3. Sleep well, eat well & move your body! I found that sleep deficiency greatly affects our focus of life, makes us perform badly in everything in our live, crippled our ability to handle crisis, and the fluctuation of emotion towards things and people is greater when we didn't manage to rest well. Usually when I find myself having a bad mood, is most probably I have been sleeping less that time! On the other side, to eat well makes us feel happy and stay healthy. It will be a great emotion booster when you can eat heartily, and with friends or family is even better! Of course, I'm not suggesting you to eat junk food which is so unhealthy and gonna drag you down further. All in all, eat heartily, have a good night sleep and you are all charge up to handle your problems!
4. Fear not, I'm the hero of my life! I think we all living in the age of fear. It's not only disasters getting more and more frequent, the whole generation is having less ability to handle uncertainties of life including losing job or someone we loved, unable to achieve what we want, unable to protect those we once own in our life. All kind of uncertainties surround us, as if we are living in the end of the world! Aren't we already living in a much civilized, developed world, why are we still feeling much threatened and insecure? Yes, we are living in this generation which is complicated by ourselves, we created this troubled world! Out of this mess, there seems to be only one way out : Fear not! Sometime I feel doubted about my choice, sometime I feel hesitate to talk, sometime i worried I cannot handle my problems; all these fear are of some reasons but it is all because we are afraid making mistakes, and we are afraid of taking up the consequences after taking some risks. "All is well! Our hearts get panic and fear easily" We know this feeling is actually playing with our heart, so we should not be taken away by this silly feeling! Go do it, get it started and it will have its way. If life is show, we will be the hero of our life who stand up from difficulties and make them as a thrilling chapter of our life story!
5. Appreciate relationship. Thanks to people who comes to our life: our parents, our sibling, our classmates, our friends, our colleagues, our superior. Perhaps as a human nothing is more important to have these people, so spend your time to building up a good relationship towards those around you. It would be so meaningful and bring joys when you can brings warmth and security to your family, when you encourage your friends and colleagues who feel demoralized, when you support your boss to grow a stronger business, when you give a helping hand to a someone who is in need. If you are willing to give, you are already get the richness of life.
6. Hopes, it's our choice to make them happen! We all have dreams, and they are needed to keep us moving gradually to a better place. Make them happen! One thing I agreed a lot on my current employer is the attitude we handle our life can make changes to our life. Be positive or negative, both can gives totally different outcome to our life. The key attitudes are: Take upsets/critics positively, keep an open mind to assess opportunities, and always be proactive and persistent in approaching people and problems. " A brick wall is to not to stop us. It is to test how badly we want get to the other side of it to get what we want."
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| Can you smile like this everyday? LOL= laugh out loud= live out loud So how? Guess I'm gonna benchmark my life from today onwards with these 6 criterion and start by making small steps, you? Opps, i miss out an important point, Be honest with yourself whenever you are lost! Haha, and that makes the 7th point! Cheers! With love, Kayne |
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